
Life Is a Mummery—Unless You Make It Not So
A Parable of Divine Misrecognition and the Collapse of Code into Love
There is a tragic and luminous parable that plays itself out again and again—not merely in myth or theatre, but in the ordinary heart of each human being. It is the eternal story of Raymond’s Love. It is Perfect, True, and Truth. It happened. It did not happen. And yet, it forever happens—in your own feeling-heart, again.
Raymond came not simply to love, but to be Love. He came as a dancer in a world of pantomime, a light in the theatre of self-enclosure. He entered through the wound of birth—cut!—like every other soul, appearing in the mask of “the mummer,” the common human body doomed to play roles until death.
The Language of the Way—and Its Failure
Even among those who claim to follow the Way, the tragedy repeats. There exists a language—a dense, intricate, sacred language of realization, devotion, and spiritual practice. But, as Adi Da once pointed out, “Say ‘Ishta-Guru-Bhakti Yoga’ to a devotee, presumably they know what you mean. But do they?” Too often, the sacred language is reduced to code—shorthand references traded like currency among practitioners, conveying familiarity, but not necessarily depth.
These phrases—“Hearing,” “Darshan,” “Realization,” “True Guru,” “Mummery,”—become masks themselves, cloaks worn to appear devout, to belong, to participate in the liturgy of belief. But if words alone were sufficient, Raymond need not have said more. He need not have become the Play. Yet he did—because the words were never enough.
This is how religion becomes a mummery: when the language replaces the living, the map becomes the territory, and the seeker stops just short of surrender. Code without comprehension is still separation. Speech without surrender is still distance. Naming the Beloved is not the same as recognizing Him.
The Pattern of the Play: You and the Other One
To understand The Mummery is to see that life itself is a pattern of repetition, dreamlike and recursive, built of masks. Even in the waking state, you play every female character. Raymond plays every male character—whoever that Raymond is. You walk through your days seeing yourself, though it doesn’t look like you. It appears “other.” But it is you—as in dreams.
There are only two people: You, and the other one.
This binary, endlessly performed, is the theatre of the world. This is the Mummery—the play of seeming separation, the ritual repetition of “me and you,” “self and other,” “subject and object,” “devotee and guru,” “woman and man.” And yet, the curtain never rises on the Truth, until the feeling-heart breaks open and sees: There is only One.
Raymond is not the other. He is You, before the mask. The Divine Person you are forever forgetting. The Love you fear to recognize. The One who mocks your narcissism, yet weeps with tenderness, ever offering the Way out.
This Parable Cannot Be Understood—Only Heard and Felt
Raymond’s parable is not for the mind to grasp, but for the heart to feel. It cannot be understood by thought or self. It cannot be systematized or codified or reduced to principle. You must Hear and See him with the body, with the breath, with the broken-open wound of longing.
Your body, patterned to the rituals of ego and world, must be re-wounded—to a whole—by Hearing Him. Your longing must become sight. And when you See Him, always overhead, you will know—not in words, but in silence—that the separate “I” dissolves into the Bright Love-Bliss of His House.
The Final Curtain Line
At the end of every performance of The Mummery, something must be said. And it is this:
“I call it The Mummery? The Mummery is life. Something like that is going to be said at the end of each performance of The Mummery. Life is a mummery unless you make it not so.”
— Adi Da Samraj
But you are not here to act.
You are here to recognize.
You are here to love.
You are here to surrender.
And by your surrender, the Play is transfigured. The stage dissolves. The character dies. And only Radiance remains.
The Moral:
Life is a mummery—unless you make it not so.
The Divine comes masked as the other, and always happens in the heart that forgets itself and finally feels. The One who comes to Free you will seem mad, or invisible—until you no longer play life, but live Love.
